The Journey of Preparation into Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God Day 236: FOCUS I was talking with a coaching client today, and I asked her what was her greatest challenge right now. And her response was "staying focused". The crazy part of her answer was that I too have trouble staying focused. Today’s Lesson: You don't have a focus problem, you have a choice problem. As I began to counsel my client, the Holy Spirit was actually counseling us both. He said you don't

The Journey of Preparation into Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God Day 235: YOU ARE A KING, YOU ARE A QUEEN, SO RULE After some amazing rest last night and a productive session with my accountability sister across the pond (London) this afternoon, I am in the direct and in your face kind of mood. Today’s Lesson: Stop murmuring, stop complaining. Put on your crown, sit on your throne and rule. On this journey of preparation into singleness, marriage and intimacy with God

The Journey of Preparation into Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God Day 234: I’M TIRED Have you ever had a day, you felt so tired, yet you still had so much to do, but it seemed like you just couldn't do no more? That is me right now. I mean it is taking all of my strength to even write this blog right now. Today’s Lesson: When you’ve done all you can and you can’t even stand, lean back and take a rest. On this journey of preparation into singleness, marriage and until n

The Journey of Preparation into Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God Day 233: HAPPY FATHER’S DAY EVERYDAY I am surrounded by men. Wait before you have an image of me like Marilyn Monroe in the movie, Gentlemen Prefer Blondes”, singing “Diamonds Are a Girl's Best Friend”, that’s not what I;m talking about..lol. But I am surrounded by men. From my birth, spiritual and god fathers, to my host of brothers either from birth or spiritual, and my dearest male friends, they are a

The Journey of Preparation into Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God Day 232: BE CREATIVE & UNIQUE IN YOUR WORSHIP Worship is the quickest attention grabber for God. It’s like an attention seeking contest in the heavily when worshipers ascend their pure worship up to the throne of God. Today's Lesson: Learn to make you worship creative and uniquely yours. I was a concert clarinetist for about 8 years. I was so good I made it to the second chair. I tried and tried to beat

The Journey of Preparation into Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God Day 231: WHEN YOUR'RE BEING MENTORED BY THE HOLY SPIRIT Most people who are successful in their life will share that they have had or have a mentor or mentors. A mentor in my view is someone who is successful and who a person admires and is aspire to learn from in order to go where that mentor has been. Some mentors we can have intimate contact with. Meaning you're able to meet with them 1-on-1, you have

The Journey of Preparation into Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God Day 230: TAKE YOURSELF OFF THE BARGAIN OR FREE RACK AND KNOW YOUR WORTH I was asked the question “Are you a Chanel or a Prada? I was confused because they are both luxury high end priced brands. So I said, “What’s the difference?” "The difference is Prada although it is a luxury brand, goes on sale and offers discounts. While Chanel, since the birth of it’s conception, has never gone on sale or lowered i

The Journey of Preparation into Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God Day 229: THE BLESSINGS OF SEPARATION This blog post is for those who feel disconnected, overlooked, disregarded, misunderstood, rejected, outcast, left out and counted out by others. Today’s Lesson: God has separated you. Don't worry It’s all in His plan. Right now I feel disconnected from others. However I know from experience that when these moments occur I have entered a season of separation. A involu

The Journey of Preparation into Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God Day 228: COMPARISON KILLS As I ran on my morning run, my heart became overjoyed as I felt grateful for feeling the wind gently hit against my face and the sound of my Nike’s hitting the gravel path. I looked around as I ran past the beautiful evergreen trees and took in a nice deep breath and felt total bliss. Today’s Lesson: Don't compare yourself with anyone, you are uniquely made How in the world did

The Journey of Preparation into Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God Day 227: I'M DROWNING...AND I LOVE IT! When I was about 3 years old I almost died underwater. I fell in the deep end of a a community pool and sunk all the way to the bottom. My mother said when a gentleman dove in to rescue me, he found me, not flapping around or even scared. He said I was sitting at the bottom of the pool looking around with my legs crossed Indian style. Most people would have grown up