The Journey of Preparation to Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God
Day 37: STAY TRUE TO YOUR CORE VALUES
Continuing the discussion related to relationships and ways to ensure to establish and maintain healthy relationships, which are to:
Identify & Compartmentalize all your relationships
Stay true to your Core Values
Follow through on your Deal Breakers
Yesterday we talked about and identified the individuals in our lives and placed them in the correct compartment in order to protect our well being. Today we are going to discuss the importance of maintaining your core values in order to stay true to you.
Creating core values helps you create a blueprint for the relationships in your life. For example if your core value is love. Then you will only be around people who love you. If one of your core values are honesty, you will not tolerate or be with individuals who lie. If your one of your core values is to trust, you will nor engage in a relationship with others you don’t trust.
When you don’t have core values you can jeopardize the health of your singleness, marriage and intimacy with God, because you have nothing to use as your compass. Anything, and anyone can come and do anything they want, because you have not created rules or standards for them and yourself to follow.
Today’s Lesson: As you live by your core values the people that will attract to you will also.
Homework: Write down a list of your core values. Assess if you are living them. Then assess if the people you identified yesterday are living them also.
Until tomorrow live out your core values and watch your relationships flourish.
With Beautiful Love