The Journey of Preparation to Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God
Day 97: NOBODY UNDERSTANDS ME! ...GOOD!
As a psychotherapist I hear these phrases a lot… “Nobody understands me!”, “I feel like nobody gets me” My response every time is, "And they wont".
Today’s Lesson: Stop trying to get people to understand you. You are a creation of God that is forever evolving, forever becoming, forever changing and forever manifesting, every second, every minute of every daily.
Facts: Every time you leave a person then meet with them again you are not the same person. They are not the same person. And the time laps can be just hours apart.
What am I saying?
When you wake up each day and enter into the world you are being shaped and influenced by your external and internal realities. From conversations, to media post to events at your job. You have learned something new, been exposed to something new and have experienced something new. Whenever this happened changes occur, whether consciously or subconsciously you have changed.
For me this is an exciting position to be in because not only do I get to know someone I may have known for years for the first time every time we meet, I also get to explore myself to learn this amazing new person I have become.
On this journey of preparation into singleness, marriage and intimacy with God keep the adventure alive in these and other relationships by embracing that you will never understand or fully know another person and they will never fully understand or know you, and it’s all good.
Until tomorrow I just don't understand you!!! Hip hip hooray!
With Beautiful Love