Day 138: WHAT DO YOU BRING TO THE TABLE?

The Journey of Preparation to Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God

Day 138: WHAT DO YOU BRING TO THE TABLE?

Have you ever create a list of qualities you wanted in a relationship? Whether that relationship was a friendship, family or a desired forever kind of love relationship. Did it look something like this?

1. They must love the Lord

2. Be and drive a BMW

3. Be funny

4. Take care of their body

5. Caring

6. Good with kids

7. Good credit

8. No baby mama or daddy drama

9. No criminal record

10. Must be adventurous

11. And intellectually attractive

12. Blah, blah, blah

Today’s Lesson: What do you bring to the table to get what your asking for?

Ouch! Many times on the journey to preparation into singleness, marriage and intimacy with God we make our list not thinking about the flip side of the coin. Which is am I the person I’m wanting to have in my life.

1. Do I love the Lord?

2. Am I or do I drive a BMW?

3. Am I even funny?

4. Do I take care of my body?

5. Am I caring?

6. Am I good with kids?

7. What is my credit score? Is it good?

8. Do I have baby mamma or baby daddy drama?

9. Is my criminal record clean?

10. When was the last time I went on an adventure?

11. Am I intellectually attractive? When was the last time I read a book? Other than the comics or Vogue magazine.

12. Blah, blah, blah

Yes it’s okay to make our list, we just need to make a list for our own personal development.

Until tomorrow, work on you boo! #whatyouserving

With Beautiful Love

Jacquelyn