The Journey of Preparation into Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God
Day 154: DO YOU WANT TO MAKE IT BETTER
It’s inevitable for couples to have disagreements even arguments. Sometimes however couples that were once passionate and inseparable can be living in a daily war zone on opposite sides of rooms yet feeling like worlds apart.
When couples or individuals come to me wanting couples therapy. My first question to them is what do you want the outcome to be?
Some say I want the other person to change, some say I can't live like this any more, some say I don't know and others say I want a divorce.
And my question to them is do you want to try and make it better?
Today’s Lesson: Not all relationships need to end in divorce.
Ironic maybe! Here I am a divorcee saying don't get a divorce. I believe if two people are willing to do the work the relationship can get better. Two mature people wanting to live a happier life together is the way, Gods way.
So on the journey of preparation into singleness, marriage and intimacy with God have the intention of forever and do the needed work to make it happen.
Disclaimer: Do not stay in relationships that are abusive in any kind of way. Get to safety and do the work apart.
Until tomorrow do the work that that #foreverkindoflove
With Beautiful Love