The Journey of Preparation into Singleness, Marriage & Intimacy With God
Day 164: IT IS OR IT ISN'T
Today’s Lesson: Mixed signals do not exist in a relationship. It either is or it isn't.
On your journey of preparation into singleness, marriage and intimacy with God let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil (Matthew 5:3).
I must embarrassingly admit that I have over analyzed a guy's behaviors toward me. Trying to decipher the hidden messages like Sherlock Holmes if what he was trying to say or do was that he liked me or not.
For those who are unmarried this blog is for you. God revealed that there is no such thing as mixed messages when it relates to a forever love type relationship that He has prepared for you. The one God has for you is going say very clearly what they want.
For the ladies when a man of God finds you, he is not going to have you confused. He will tell you what he wants and pursue you in his actions. Leaving you no room for doubt about his intentions.
For the fella's when you find your good thing she is not going to be playing games, and stringing you along to a dead lonely end. She will allow you to pursue her but she will let you know from the start if you have a chance to win her heart.
So if someone is sending mixed messages, they are not the one, period. Stop the game by removing yourself from the board. Focus on your purpose and wait for God’s best!
So until tomorrow #zerotolleranceforgames
With Beautiful Love